What makes a woman hot? Though some men may define hotness as purely physical, it is interesting to know that more than a pretty face they look at those eyes… more than that gorgeous body they look at the way she moves and carries herself… more than her sexy clothes they look at how confident she is in wearing them.
From my own experience and from what I have gathered from other people, especially from men, I have come up with the major criteria for the “hotness” of a woman. These factors include: confidence, mystery, being adventurous, her eyes and how they communicate, her sense of humor, and her nurturing spirit. All these focus more on the inner rather than the outer person.
Now let us look at each criterion and discuss each one further.
Confidence comes from the inside out. It can’t be faked. In fact, some of the most beautiful and sexiest women are the most insecure. Our sense of security starts by knowing ourselves and accepting ourselves for who we are, the way God created us to be.
The greatest commandment that God gave us is in Deuteronomy 6:5: And you shall love the Lord your God with all your [mind and] heart and with your entire being and with all your might. This means loving God with all our heart, mind, soul, and strength. The second greatest commandment given by Jesus in Matthew 22:39 says: Love your neighbor as yourself. If you will pay close attention to these Scriptures, the order is as follows: Love God, then yourself, then others.
Just as my love for my husband grows as I get to know him more, my love for God grows as I get to know Him more. Knowing God starts by having a personal relationship with Him; and loving Him comes as a result of this. Likewise, “loving God” means obeying His Word.
It is through this love relationship with God that we begin to experience a great love, nothing that we have ever experienced before. It is through this love that we begin to have peace and an inner sense of security that can never be shaken. It is through this love that we receive healing from our hurts and pains, delivering us from a life of fear and insecurity. It is through this love that we begin to understand God’s great plan for us, making us understand that we were created uniquely, and therefore, we don’t have to compete with others. It is through this love that we begin to love ourselves, becoming grateful for this life that God has given us. It is through this love that we develop a real sense of confidence that comes from deep within us.
There is no greater confidence than the confidence that comes from having a real, intimate relationship with Jesus Christ.
A woman who has discovered this and who has found her security in Jesus is truly hot!
As a rebellious teenager, my dad used to tell me, “Remain a mystery to men. Don’t let them get tired of seeing you everyday”. I didn’t understand it then, but I do now. Men love the “chase”. God created them as the pursuers and so they want to pursue than be pursued. The more mysterious a woman is, the more a man desires to get to know her.
I remember talking to a nude painter, way back in my past, and I asked him how he felt when he is painting a totally naked woman in front of him. He said that the only exciting part is when the woman begins to undress. After that, the mystery is gone. It makes a lot of sense, doesn’t it?
Honestly, just as confidence can’t be faked, being mysterious can’t be faked either. It can be manipulated but it will be exposed very soon. A real mysterious woman is someone who is not even trying to be mysterious. She is cautious, wise, and discerning by nature. She keeps things to herself and reveals only to those who deserve to be close to her.
When a woman is surrendered to Jesus, she develops an inner sense of security that makes her confident (I’ve mentioned this earlier). This confidence gives her a positive “no care attitude”, meaning, she is not out there to please people. She is not out there to shout to everyone: “hey, look at me”. Thus, she becomes mysterious to others.
A woman who knows and abides by the Word of God, and who has a great fear of the Lord has wisdom. This wisdom is the reason why she will always remain a mystery to others.
Truly, a woman dedicated to the Lord is hot!
Being adventurous is more than just sky diving, mountain climbing, or other risky sports and hobbies. It is not being scared of risks. It is moving beyond one’s comfort zone. It is walking the extra mile. An adventurous woman is the opposite of boring and rigid.
A woman who understands the essence of salvation and who knows the great plans of God for her life is out for an adventure. She realizes that this Christian walk is not a bed of roses; rather it is a “war”.
What greater adventure than walking with Jesus in faith – calling those things that are not as though they were… believing in evidences that are not seen by the physical eye… watching something spiritual turn into something physical.
Who can be more adventurous than a woman who habitually walks with God?
Now that is hot!!!
Her Eyes and how they Communicate
The eyes are the window to the soul. I totally believe this. When you look at a woman’s eyes you can see through her. You can either see good or bad. Matthew 6:22 says that the eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are good, your whole body will be full of light.
This Scripture means two things to me: that the eyes reveal who you really are; and that when you choose to focus your eyes on good things, your whole being will be good.
A woman who is focused on Jesus is focused on things that are of God. Her eyes speak of the love, peace, and joy found only in God. She communicates sincerity instead of flattery; love instead of lust; and humility instead of pride. Her eyes speak the message of God, which is love.
What can be hotter than that?
Her sense of humor
A woman with a sense of humor can bring fun into the most boring situation. She can break the ice when everybody else around her is feeling tense. She is truly a breath of fresh air. Having a sense of humor is not only about cracking jokes or trying to make people laugh. It comes out spontaneously as a result of a joyful spirit.
There is no greater joy than being with Jesus. When a woman begins to understand God’s great love for her, His mercy and grace, His favor over her, she begins to experience an overwhelming sense of joy. Jesus said in John 7:38: “Anyone who believes in me may come and drink! For the Scriptures declare, ‘Rivers of living water will flow from his heart.'” This “rivers of living water” is a bubbling joy that will never be quenched. Now that is far beyond just having a sense of humor. That is hot!!!
Her nurturing spirit
God created women as nurturers. The mere fact that women bear children is a great indicator of this nurturing nature. However, this nurturing spirit can be damaged by hurts and pains that a woman goes through. A woman who has been betrayed by the man she loved and took good care of may not want to love and care for someone again.
When a woman surrenders her life to Jesus, she experiences true healing from all her hurts and pains. Her walls break down and she gets restored. A woman surrendered to Christ adapts the qualities of her Savior, which includes His caring and compassionate nature. Jesus starts flowing through her. She becomes an empty vessel for God.
There is no other woman more nurturing that one who has found her true love in Jesus. That is hot!!!
So there you go… the hottest women in this planet are those who have found their security in Jesus, those who have surrendered their lives to Him, those who abide in Him, and those who fully obey Him.